A Human's life is as same as a seed. How a packed seed gets spoiled same a child who is over raised by his parents also gets spoiled. How?
If a seed is packed it does not get enough nutrients that it want to germinate. Similarly, if a child is over raised by his/her parents the child does not get enough nutrients from the society.
An unpacked seed gets enough nutrients, grows high and be like the other trees. On the second hand a packed seed does not get enough nutrients and does not germinate and grow like other trees. Similarly, if a child over nourished by his/her parents does not allow the child to get the necessary nutrients from the society. Nutrients not in the sense like soil, air, water, etc. The nutrients which help the child to grow like the child should grow we will discuss about the nutrients in the later part of article.
Every successful person has a rich and good lifestyle. We all just see the success but not the struggle behind it. The problems which they have been through. They were able to overcome their problem because they were not over nourished by their parents. They were not the packed seed they were the unpacked seed which grown on their own. Here, i didn't mean that we should leave our parents or our parents should not nourish us our parents should nourish us but not above the limit. Every thing has a limit over-limit is dangerous. I meant that we should learn to deal with our problems. Which is our first nutrient.
1.Deal With Our Problems:
In this world everything has solutions but to find a solution we need two things Self-Confidence and power to face any difficult situation in our life. If we have confidence on ourselves we can achieve anything we want in life. Instead of wasting money in shopping we should invest on our skills so that we can easily solve our problem. And confidence on ourselves to overcome any problem.
Yes, courage is a prominent factor in our life if we want to grow.
Courage of taking risks in our life is very important. There are certain moments where you have to go away from the crowd and do something very different from the crowd. In order to do so you should have courage of taking risk. Your 20's is the best time to take risks and grow. If you want to achieve something high in life you need to take risks and courage to face your failures.
3.Decision Making Abilities:
You should take right decisions at right time. You gain this ability only by learning from your mistake. In order to grow we should learn from our failures. If you make a mistake instead of keep thinking learn from it and leave it there itself and move on. Learning from your mistakes would give you a experience and directly would improve your decision making abilities.
These are some of the most prominent nutrients required by a child to grow and become strong like a big and strong tree. There are many others nutrients, but according to me these are some of the most prominent nutrients which a child should get in order to grow.
The child who is over nourished is weak if compared to a child who's life is like an unpacked seed.
I would like to conclude my Article just by saying one sentence
'Be capable of doing something which you are interested in. You will definitely get success in it.'