Machapisho yote ya Rubab Hasnain Khakoo . Dar es Salaam , Tanzania

EDUCATION AND CAREER

WHAT IS EDUCATION?

When we say education, the first thought we get is education is the process of gaining knowledge. It is the process of facilitating learning or training and acquiring knowledge, skills, values, beliefs, and ethics.

Education can be in the way of either formal or informal.

I believe that everyone in this world does acquire knowledge whether it’s by informal way from our elders, ancestors or by the formal way like going to school, college, university, etc.

Why do we acquire knowledge, how does it help us in our daily life?

We acquire knowledge on what we believe in future we shall thrive to become someone in our lives. We all have a goal and target on what we wish to become in the future, and not only are some of us still researching more options on what we want to become in the future.

It is excellent as you may get hundreds of opinions, but in the end, there will be only one opinion which will be the best of all and education in our daily life helps us both in our career and life as well.

To have a promising career, you need to get an education first. Education shows us the importance of hard work and thus helps us grow and develop in our life, and it allows us to differentiate between many things, including right and wrong, good and bad, etc.

Nowadays, education has become a joke in this generation because some people are not ready to work hard. They are unable to define their goals, targets, and what they want to become in life and are not focused on their career; my aim is not to point out to anyone but want to say that in generalit's hight time please take charge of your life, pass through the difficulties arising, be patient. In the end, things will be easier.

“PATIENCE IS BITTER, BUT ITS FRUIT IS SWEET.”

In the end, a person will have a promising career and will succeed in achieving their goals or targets.

WHAT IS A CAREER?

When I say career, I mean it is an individual’s journey through learning, education, and all other aspects of life. It is an occupation or profession undertaken which usually involves training and teaching followed by one’s lifework.

A career cannot be achieved without hard work; To build a promising career and a bright future, a person needs to be hardworking, educated, and trained.

To be successful and have a career, a person must be passionate and interested in the chosen occupation or profession. The person must work with joy and excitement, enjoy the work the person is doing, and be determined.

A great career is whatever job you have that makes you want to work every morning, and it’s never about the pay or benefits.

Create different opportunities for a promising career because prospects don’t happen just like that, but you create them.

Always never give up on anything and go on with the choice that scares you because that’s the one that is going to help you grow, and in case of failures, don’t stop, keep going because failures are a part of life, if you don’t fail, you don’t learn if you don’t learn you’ll never change.

“FAILURE IS NOT THE OPPOSITE OF SUCCESS; IT’S A PART OF SUCCESS.”

Work hard and build the foundation strong to build a great career and never accept defeat without trying and have confidence in yourself and at the end you will surely get success.

“THERE ARE NO SECRETS TO SUCCESS; IT IS THE RESULTS OF PREPARATION, HARD WORK, AND LEARNING FROM FAILURE.”

Nothing is impossible in this world; the word itself says I’m possible !!!!

DEAR PEOPLE, LET US TRY AND BE SERIOUS IN OUR LIFE AND BE FOCUSED TO ACHIEVE THE FRUITS SWEET IN THE FUTURE. ALL THE BEST.

RELATIONSHIPS

WHAT ARE RELATIONSHIPS?

When we say relationship, what first comes to our mind is the connection between people and how people are connected.

Relationship means how two or more people or things are connected or related to each other by either blood or marriage or in different ways. In this world, in our society, people are related to each other in many ways, either by blood or marriage or by the relation love, friendship, hatred, humanity, etc.

We are connected and are in a relationship with each other, whether it's husband and wife, sister and brother, son/daughter and parents, etc.

Relationships are very delicate and sensitive. We must always be careful not to break them just due to a silly misunderstanding or a fight over a minor issue. They are very precious; take care of them because it is most painful for you to lose them when a person you know becomes a person you knew.

Relationships are very valuable (precious); only for those people that are fortunate to have them, to have someone who takes care, is concerned about them, love them, and were, is, and will always be there for them no matter what happens will always stand beside them.

Every relationship starts with being a stranger, full of excitement, joy, and long-time life commitments and promises.

When people get into relationships, they are always strangers to each other, and later on, they start knowing each other. That relationship begins turning out very precious for them, and every relationship is based on trust between each other.

Trust is the faith you have in someone that they will always remain loyal to you; to trust someone means you can rely on them and are comfortable confiding in them because you feel safe with them.

Trust is the building block for any relationship without which the foundation will always remain shaky, fall apart, won't survive, and tend to break within no time.

A good and healthy relationship is how PEACE, LOVE, RESPECT, and DIGNITY are maintained.

The leading five pillars of a healthy relationship are:

> Good communication and understanding between each other.

> Respect between each other.

> Equality amongst each other.

> Both of them must be within their boundaries and limits with each other.

> Be supportive and cooperate.

To have a healthy relationship, these five pillars must be considered, and not only that, but we should try our level best to avoid misunderstandings and ego. Ego has a role in spoiling relationships try avoiding having ego in relationships, EGO is a small three-letter word that can destroy a big twelve-letter word called RELATIONSHIP.

In the case of any problem, both parties should try and sit with each other alone and try to solve them amongst themselves. I believe that every situation has a solution, and that solution is hidden in the problem; we only have to find it, and I think it's possible.

Guys, please value your relations no matter how many difficulties arise but don't ever give up try to solve them and don't let the relationship fall apart. Most don't ever humiliate or insult that relationship. Try to handle them with care and love. You'll see everything will be possible and always have patience and in case of anything try and apologize to make the relationship more stronger.

"APOLOGIZING DOESN'T MEAN YOU'RE WRONG AND THE OTHER PERSON IS RIGHT. IT JUST MEANS THAT YOU VALUE YOUR RELATIONSHIP MORE THAN YOUR EGO."

While making decisions on certain relationships, always think twice, seek advice, research more about that, have patience, and don't hasten to make decisions.

In a relationship, both partners should try to understand each other and incase of compromising and sacrificing both partners should compromise not only one partner should do, both are supposed to compromise and sacrifice in order to balance the relationship equally. Most importantly, no one is perfect in this world; hence we should accept our partner's flaws, and the relationship will be more vital with time.

Never leave a true relationship for a few faults, nobody is perfect, nobody is correct.

In the end "AFFECTION IS ALWAYS GREATER THAN PERFECTION."

At last I can say,

Strength grows when we dare, Unity grows when we pair, Love grows when we share & Relations grow when we care.

LIVE IN PEACE, NOT IN PIECES.

DEAR FRIENDS AND FAMILY, LETS TRY AND MAINTAIN AND KEEP OUR RELATIONS CAREFULLY. ALL THE BEST.

CULTURE & RELIGION

WHAT IS CULTURE?

Culture means ideas, customs and social behavior of particular people, society and community, encompassing language, religion, cuisine, social habits, music, arts and etc. Culture encompasses everything we do in our life daily, what we wear, how we dress up, what we believe (whether it’s right or wrong), how we behave with people and etc.

In our society through culture, people and groups define themselves, accept the society’s shared values and traditions and contribute more to the society. Each society has different culture, religion, tradition and etc, but it depends on us on how we believe and follow it.

Believing in the traditions, rituals, customs is not bad but sometimes some people tend to have excessive beliefs and that too which are false and superstitious.

Superstitions means a belief or practice that is not based on reason or scientific thinking, neither is scientifically proved nor is based on scientific knowledge or human reasons which are not true but still people just believe it as they think it makes them feel good or bad luck, for example people believe in a particular number which brings luck to them or if by wearing particular colour clothes may bring luck.

I am not trying to hurt anyone or insult anyone’s culture, beliefs, but I just want to make people understand the difference between superstition and reality.

The truth is before we came to this world the Almighty had already written our destiny and if anything good or bad would happen with us meant it was already written and whatever happens has a reason behind and we should not blame anyone for the things happen in our lives but we should have hope and trust in ourselves and on Almighty. Believing and following our culture is not bad but do not exceed it and believing in something which is not reality.

As we speak about culture it also includes religion,

WHAT IS RELIGION ?

Religion is organized beliefs, practices and systems that relates to believing and worship of a controlling natural force/power, the one who created the universe, who created us, nurtured us and brought us to this universe, provided us all the needs and gave us such lovely parents that take care of us. The only person always there with us in our problems, sorrows and happiness is none other than the Almighty God.

In this world everyone has their own religion; worships their own religion and believes in them, for examples of religions are Hinduism, Islam, Christianity, Sikhism, Buddhism and etc.

We should respect each other’s religion and never make fun of it, by religion we may be different but by humanity we are all the same,humanity is the biggest and best religion, and instead of differentiating each other by colour, form, appearance, religion we should be united, we should have unity amongst us.

“We may have different religions, different languages, different coloured skin, but we all belong to ONE HUMAN RACE.”

No matter how we are different from each other we should be one and no one is perfect, everyone has their own flaws but what makes them perfect is the person who accepts them. I believe that everyone is perfect in their own imperfect ways.

Guys all I can say that be yourself and live the story that no one else can live of your unique life.

At last we are all,

HINDUS

BUDDHISM

MUSLIMS

ATHEISTS

CHRISTIANS

JEW S……………ACT LIKE IT.

DEAR GUYS LETS JUST FORGET ALL THE PREVIOUS THINGS AND START AFRESH AND LETS RESPECT EVERYONE, THEIR OPINION AND EVERYONE’S RELIGIONS.

ALL THE BEST ♡.